Managers write up employee for being burnt out after losing two family members, face payback when they tell him to stop talking about burnout

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    Tired young man in suit and tie is working on computer in office at night sitting at desk in dark room, with his head in his hands
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    Stop reporting about office burn out? Okay, done

    My field of work has a high turnover and high burn out rate. As a result, my company promotes transparent conversations with staff members to ensure we are all implementing self care, taking PTO as needed, and asking for managerial support when overwhelmed with tasks.
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    Tired guy in formal suit in sleeping on work desk in office late at night after busy working day
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    Last year, my work began to suffer. I was struggling losing two close family members suddenly, and was transparent in hopes they would understand why I was withdrawn and had lower productivity. My manager wrote me up as a result of my burn out, citing that I was using our 1:1's inappropriately, causing stress among the team with my grief, and talking about being burnt out too much. The write up included every single 1:1 documentation of when I asked for help with burn out. Management instructed
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    No problem. I stopped bringing up burn out, being transparent, and asking support. About 2 months later, I request a 7 week leave of absence; citing extreme burn out and mental health issues. Management was shocked, and angry that I did not tell them I was struggling or burning out. I handed them a copy of my write up and said “The action plan I received stated I could not talk about burn out anymore."
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    Management was scolded for inadvertently creating a hostile work environment where staff couldn't ask for support. I got 7 weeks off and partial pay, and they had to cover my job for that entire time I was out.
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    a woman surrounded by piles of papers puts her head in her hand
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    Commenters judged the behavior of management.

    NEO--2020 Hope you are feeling better now OP.
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    Contrantier Sweet! I hope that slammed their fragile egos back down where they belonged. Also hope you're doing okay now.
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    EJoule Management: Surprised pikachu face
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    Ok-Tomato257 Sounds like the company is scared of you leaving and making a Constructive Dismissal claim against them. Document everything and don't keep your records at work. Best of luck.
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    naughtykaspa Went through this. Told about burn out, took leave came back and straight onto a PIP for months and then ended up quitting. Took me 12 months to find another permanent job. Up there with the worst 18months of my life.
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    Honest-Pepper8229 I think it's time for you to seek new employment. They aren't going to forget this, even though it was a beast of their own making.
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    laz10 The write up included every single 1:1 documentation of when I asked for help with burn out. That's psychopathic behaviour from them
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    PygmeePony Sounds like typical middle management. They don't do shit all day and punish those that do.
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    nausicaa518 Some people treat burn out as a joke. It's not a joke. I experienced something similar, OP. There's no medicine for this apparently - just change of lifestyle and incorporating activities that take my mind off work according to my psychiatrist. My activity was cooking and painting.
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    DreamWeaver80 I'm sorry you had to go through this. I also have had to take a lengthy leave due to burnout in an already unhealthy work environment, so I get it. Telling you not to talk about burnout or your grief is appalling, but I love that they had the gall to document telling you it was inappropriate. Idiots. I hope you're doing better now
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    kyledwray Just so you're aware, there was nothing "inadvertent" about the creation of a hostile work environment. I sincerely hope you're doing better now, OP.
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    Am3n Partial pay is not good enough, they created the hostile work environment and should pay for its affects on the health of the workers
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    Swiggy1957 You're blessed to have such supportive higher management. I don't know what industry you're in, but your company realizes that experienced workers are assets and not a drain on proflductivity and profits. Your direct manager failed to take that importance of policy seriously enough.

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